What's in an Introduction?

"May I help you?"surprised to say the least. The guys would call up,
"Just looking, thanks."ask to speak to the manager, and then ask who
"Okay, if you do need anything I'll be right here."I was. As soon as I told them, they would say
"Uh, okay. Thanks."something along the lines of, "aahhhaaa, so
Does any of the above sound familiar? I'll bet itYOU'RE him," leaving me a little bemused. And
does. It's the usual scenario when you walk intothen they would explain what was going on.
some type of shop and most of us will probablyI must admit, it was flattering. Especially when the
recognise it, or have been victim to it, at onearea manager refused to let me leave the store
time or another.on a transfer, and literally chucked money at me
I did some retail work, once upon a time a long,to stay there. Money I hadn't worked for.
long time ago. Where, or why, it doesn't matter.What exactly was the secret recipe for this, you
Misspent youth, I suppose.may wonder? Would you believe it was all in the
In the process, I've had quite a lot, and I mean aintroduction?
LOT, of sales training. One particular courseWhile everyone else stuck to the same old
always sticks to my mind as I am convinced thatroutine, as above, I just went up to the person,
it was probably the best sales training course Istuck my hand out and said, "Hi, I'm Rezbi. What's
have ever encountered, bar none. I won't go intoyour name?" Ninety percent of the time, they
the nitty gritty, the meat of the course, as such.would shake my hand and just tell me.
I will say that, if I remembered the instructor'sThen I would just invite them over to have a
name he would definitely get a mention here. I doseat and start chatting. During this chat I would
remember he was Welsh. It was a long time ago,ask probing questions to find out exactly what
after all.they wanted.
After this particular course, being new to theYou see, once the introduction was over and we
industry and rather naive, I figured I had to doknew each other's name, it was like we were
exactly what I was taught when I got back tofriends and it was much easier to just talk, as
work. No-one else got duped so easily.opposed to sell.
As a result, within a couple of weeks I had phoneWho was it who said, "A stranger is a friend I
calls from people from far away lands wanting tohaven't yet met?" I forget. But how true it is.
speak to me. Yes, I mean the kind of placeI know it's difficult on paper, but maybe you'll get
where no-one wants to go: like Birmingham. Youthis practical training. Or maybe you've already
see, these people had heard of me. I had becomehad it. If so, I highly recommend you use it.
somewhat of a legend without realising it.Try it. Be comfortable with each other first. Be
Apparently, I was setting some sort of salesfamiliar. Be naive.
record within this particular company. Wow! I was