What Prospects Are Saying About Your Selling Skills

According to IDC's 2010 Customer Experiencehuge disadvantage because face-to-face
Survey of 213 senior level buyers, most peoplepersuasion is a skill that gets better the more you
are not as effective selling one-on-one as theydo it. However, when one relies on referrals or
think they are. This comes in stark contrast tocold calling as your primary means for getting
the perception of most business owners,meetings, you're just not going to have a lot of
consultants and sales professionals who tend toopportunities. This is, to a certain extent, a game
adopt the attitude of "get me in front of aof numbers, so you need to first fix the process
prospect and I'll close the deal."by which you get opportunities to meet."
According to behavioral psychologist John Crandall,But what about when you're in the meeting, what
this overly optimistic assessment of sales skillscan make people more effective in that situation?
comes from the fact that for many people, theMotorola's Contrado has one specific suggestion.
only face-to-face selling they engage in is with"If they talk about case studies and how they
friendly prospects who are referred directly tohave helped companies with similar challenges-that
them. Crandall explains, "Although referrals arekind of approach gets my brain going about how
terrific, they can give one a false sense ofthey can help me." In other words, it's the stories
prowess regarding their ability to sell. What I callyou tell.
'friendly referrals' will usually be extremely politeDr. Crandall cautions, "Stories, case studies, call
and seldom brush off or overtly dismiss the salesthem what you will, are undoubtedly the most
presentation from a person who got into theireffective method for getting your prospect to
office as a result of relationship with someonevisualize the benefits that a company can provide.
they respect and trust."But again there's a disconnect. Most people think
"Thus, the meetings tend to be very pleasant andthey are much more effective raconteurs than
the business owner or consultant is left with thethey are in fact. There's a huge difference
distinct feeling that a business relationship is likelybetween telling a story in a bar to your buddy,
to happen. Unfortunately, in the majority of casesand imperceptibly weaving an effective story into
that doesn't occur, although the consultant will holda sales presentation."
onto the 'positive belief' that a deal is imminent for"That requires planning, forethought and practice.
months or sometimes even years."Unfortunately very few people seem to be willing
According to the IDC survey, 64% of the keyto take the time to actually develop a series of
decision makers found sales presentations to bestories in advance that they can then draw upon
extremely ineffective. A chief culprit? Accordingwhen they are needed."
to Eduardo Conrado, SVP & CMO, enterpriseMark Wilson, VP at Sybase Inc. concurs, "The
mobility solutions at Motorola Inc., "Doing a straightmost effective sales presentations are those in
product pitch without relating it to the specificwhich the person has a number of case studies
needs that I have."and they pick them intelligently for companies that
Crandall concurs. "It's amazing to me that althoughface the same problems as us."
anyone selling for any extended period of timeWhat struck me about this article, and the
knows about advanced preparation, andcomments of Dr. Crandall, was this disconnect
communicating benefits rather than facts andbetween what we understand intellectually and
features, so few people actually do this whenwhat we do in action. As anyone knows who has
they are in a live selling situation. There is a hugesold anything, the face-to-face selling situation is
disconnect between what people intellectuallyaccompanied with a fair amount of tension. What
know they should do, and what they actually arethis means is that unless your case studies and
doing."stories are developed and rehearsed in advance,
So what's the solution? What should businessit's most likely that you'll either fail to use them in
owners and consultants do differently when theythe meeting, or that what is communicated
are in front of a prospect? Dr. Crandall says, "Thedoesn't represent your best effort. And that's a
reality is that most consultants and entrepreneursshame. Especially if you don't get a lot of times at
just don't get that many times at bat. That's abat.