Relationship Selling - How to Overcome Your Fear of Selling For Long Term Success

The "Open for Business" sign is figuratively and,will truly start to enjoy as you move forward in
depending on your business, literally hanging onthe process of relationship building and see
your door. You are all ready and excited to getyourself as a "solutions provider" rather than a
started in your new small local business venture.salesperson. It is genuinely a give-first,
Everything in place, books are in order, inventorytake-second mindset and once you have acquired
supplies on hand. Seems like you have everythingthese skills, they will be skills you will use in your
covered. One small problem....there doesn't seemeveryday life in all situations.
to be any customers/clients to whom you canDo you have to be an expert salesperson to sell?
sell your product or services. Gee, must haveNo, absolutely not. In fact, it is actually better that
forgotten to put in an order for those. Sounds ayou have no previous sales experience when
little far-fetched but more often than not, mostgetting started in this type of selling. It leaves all
small local business owners start out with anof that old "pitchy" baggage behind and wipes the
excellent knowledge of their trade but absolutelyslate clean. Creating and building these customer
no knowledge of one of the most critical skills:relationships will increase your credibility over time,
Selling. Relationship Selling and Relationship Buildingposition you as an expert in your field, and create
are absolutely paramount for any small businessrepeat business and referrals from your existing
owner to learn when starting out; but yet so fewcustomer base. Over time, your business will
have even the slightest idea where to start andgrow exponentially simply because you offered
their fear of selling is holding them back fromsolutions and provided value to your customer
reaching the long term success they truly desire.above and beyond what your competitors offer.
Seems most small business owners don't know aThese are the keys to truly being a successful
lick about selling and don't really care much about"salesperson" in today's market. There is no
it either. They think if they place a few ads, hangreason to fear selling because it no longer is about
a few signs, customers will come in droves. But ifyou but rather about your customer. This shift in
you dig deep enough, you more than often thanthinking is what will create an atmosphere of trust
not find that most people are simply afraid orand make the selling process something you will
uncomfortable when it comes to that dreadedlook forward to rather than dread.
word - "Selling". It doesn't have to be that way.Don't let the fear of selling hold you back from
Selling does not have to be a pitchfest any longer.reaching the long term success you deserve and
With relationship selling, the emphasis is ondesire. If you are just starting out, it is imperative
relationship building. Building a relationship verythat you develop these skills before you hang the
similar to the way you would have coffee and"open for business" sign on your door.
chat with an old friend. It should be a process, notHaving an excellent knowledge of your trade is
a "one shot deal" where you try and convincethe cake. Overcoming your fears of selling and
someone to buy from you.getting customers in the door and coming back
Done correctly, selling can be something that youfor more is the icing.