Relationship Selling Beats Cold Calling!

p>I do not know many people who like 'coldhome staging and redesign services. Here are a
calling' to make a sale, and I do not know manyfew that have proven to be the best for new
people who are good at it. So let's take a look atentrepreneurs:
another way to make your 'sale' by developing• NETWORKING RELATIONSHIPS- go to many
relationships with real people who you really wantdifferent networking events and choose to join
to do business with!the ones that you feel most connected with and
As an instructor I often hear this comment:who also have the same values as you do. Once
"SELLING IS THE HARDEST THING FOR ME TOyou find a networking group you want to join
DO"then make a commitment to be there each time
Before taking my 'leap of faith' and doingthere is a meeting. Get to know the other
something that I really loved to do I had spentmembers. Find and connect with people that you
years in the corporate world as a very successfulgenuinely want to do business with. Let them get
sales person in a service industry. Each year weto know who you are and what you do. We have
had to analyze our sales and determine what ourall been to those networking events where right
budgets would be for the next year. We oftenoff the bat someone wants to sell you something
based our projections upon what is called the 80and they have not taken any time to get to
20 rule.know you, or even what your needs are. This
From Wikipedia it states:can be offensive and many a good sale is lost by
*The 80 - 20 Rule: The Pareto principle or thenot taking time to build trust with one another.
80-20 rule states that, for many events, roughly• REALTOR RELATIONSHIPS - when you are
80% of the effects come from 20% of thefirst starting out you need to be 'out there'
causes. Business management thinker Joseph M.meeting as many realtors as you can spending
Juran suggested the principle and named it afterabout 65% of your time doing this. You will be
Italian economist Vilfredo Pareto, who observed inable to discern which ones you have the best fit
1906 that 80% of the land in Italy was owned bywith and who you will continue to develop
20% of the population; he developed the principlerelationships with. Ideally over time you can
by observing that 20% of the pea pods in hisdevelop more exclusive relationships with fewer
garden contained 80% of the peas. It is arealtors. However you always want to be
common Rule of Thumb business; e.g., "80% ofmeeting new realtors due to the nature of the
your sales come from 20% of your clients.market.
Another source states this:• STRATEGIC ALLIANCE RELATIONSHIPS -
*t really doesn't matter what numbers you apply,think about all of the industry-related people that
the important thing to understand is that in youryou know that you can develop stronger
life there are certain activities you do - your 20%relationships with. Going out for a coffee or
that account for the majority - your 80% ofsending a card to keep in touch over time, will
your happiness and outputs.definitely pay off for you. Alliances can also be
So what this suggests is that you need to look atgreat for referrals as well and this group can help
building quality, long-term relationships with clientsbuild your business.
that you like doing business with. Forget about• HOME SELLER RELATIONSHIPS - while you
'hard selling' to prospects and/or existing clients,may only stage a home the same client once
but rather take the approach that you want toevery few years (or perhaps not even this often)
get to know these contacts better by developingremember that you can also move this client into
stronger relationships.their new home. Also, never underestimate the
SOME TIPS FOR RELATIONSHIP SELLING...value of home-seller referrals. Referrals can add
There will be a variety of opportunities for you toup to be a sizable income source for you.
build relationships so that you can 'soft sell' your