Overcoming Sales Objections, Could The Golden Rule Be Wrong

When I think overcoming sales objections, I oftenVery successful people ask you questions and
think ofthe golden rule. You may ask, what doestheyactually listen to your answer. They listen
the golden rulehave to do with overcoming salestwiceas much as they talk. When you listen, your
objections? Well, I thinkthere is a very tightcustomertells you what his sales objections are.
relationship between the golden of ruleandKnowing thisin advance is very useful in
overcoming common sales objections.overcoming sales objections.
When you think about handling sales objections,3)They take specific action based on what you
you should think ofthe golden rule. Here's what Ihave toldthem.
mean.Very successful people prove they listen by
How would you feel if you found out that a basictreating youand your views with the respect you
truththat you've believed since you were a childdeserve. Overcomingsales objections has
wasn't exactlytrue?everything to do with treating peoplewith respect.
What would think if you found out that the goldenWe all feel comfortable with people who
rule,or at least the way you learned it, is wrong?understand ourfeelings and how we think. We all
We all know the golden rule. Do unto others aswant others to knowand understand what is
you wouldhave them do unto you. Isn't that whatimportant to us. When we understandour
we have been toldall of our lives? When we arecustomer's feelings and understand how they
dealing with common salesobjections from ourthink,we can overcome common sales objections
customers, it would be good to lookat the goldenbefore they areeven brought up by the
rule, but maybe not in the way we werecustomer.
taughtwhen we were kids.So, here is how you use the true golden rule to
I would suggest that the happiest, mostovercomesales objections, or even better never
successful, mostfulfilled people we know don'thear your commonsales objections.
follow the golden ruleas we've been taught it! AndSeek to understand before you seek to be
these people rarely have to overcome salesunderstood.
objections.I discovered this truth when I was just beginning
Do the happiest and most successful people youmy career.
know shareany common traits? You know theI was talking to the owner of a small business
people I'm talking about.about myproduct. I told him all of the benefits and
People with genuine success and truefeatures myproduct provided.
lifelongrelationships.At the end of my call, the business owner told
Do they share common traits? I bet theymehe really liked my presentation. He only had
do,although probably not the traits you wouldone questionfor me. This question really made me
expect.take a look athow I worked with my customers.
What traits do they share?What was his question? 'What is this product
1)They are very good listeners.going to dofor me'? I realized that based on our
Yes, they listen, but what does that have to doconversation sofar, I truthfully couldn't answer his
with overcomingsales objections?question.
Successful people focus on you as you speak.Since I did not even ask the business owner any
They are truly interested in what you have toquestions,
say.I was not ready for this very common sales
These successful people treat you in ways thatobjection.
makeyou feel comfortable and relaxed aroundI hadn't even asked him enough about his
them.business tounderstand how our product would
They always try to understand how youprocessbenefit him specifically.
and absorb information.I certainly didn't understand his emotional state or
They give you information in ways that arehisproblems. I should have known the business
helpful to you.owner wouldobject to that type of arrogance.
Think about it. Aren't our most common salesThat moment changed my view of the world. I
objectionsnothing more than pleas for moreknewfrom that moment forward I must first
information?concentrate onunderstanding the needs and wants
These folks speak to you in ways that make youof my customer before
feelimportant and appreciated.I would be able to help him understand how my
If you listen to your customer when you talk,productwould benefit him.
they willtell you how to overcome common salesSince this time I have used an alternative version
objections.of thegolden rule. This new 'golden rule' has lead
2)They ask you lots and lots of relevantme down thepath of success and happiness.
questions!My golden rule is 'do unto others as they would
Yes, but you may ask, but how does that helplike doneunto them'. As a result, I rarely have to
with handlingsales objections?overcome salesobjections. My customer
Well, don't you hate people who are always tellingovercomes the objections for mebefore they
and neverasking?ever come up.