NLP Sales Negotiation Techniques That Work on the Customer's Internal Map of Reality

Sales negotiations work in two ways. In theareas of the negotiation where you are close to
external real world, and in the customer's internalan agreement. Question the buyer's position and
world where they make pictures, listen to selfhow they formed it internally. When you know
talk, and create feelings and emotions. Most saleshow a belief was formed you can change it.
people know how to negotiate in the real world,For example, the buyer wants the product
but how many can use powerful NLP salesdelivering this month and you can't get it to them
negotiation techniques to negotiate in the internalfor 2 months. Question why they want it this
world of the buyer's mind.month. What is their motivator for wanting the
Negotiation techniques are used when there is adelivery this month? What beliefs do they hold
discussion between two or more people withthat make this a need on their map of the world?
separate objectives for a common situation. ThisNow take the motivators and the beliefs, and the
happens all the time as you try and close a sale.other information you have, and use it to
Imagine what an advantage you would have ifnegotiate on their map of reality. Find alternative
you focused on what the buyer's real objectivesways to fit with their beliefs, or change them.
are, and how they arrived at them.Look at how you can satisfy their motivators and
Internal and external negotiation techniquesstill get what you want from the negotiation. Is
There are two negotiations going on at the sametheir a way to pacify the needs the buyer
time. One is in the real world. The other is in thebelieves they have? Can you change their
internal world of the buyer's mind.reasons behind their needs so they fit closer to
Your objective is for you and the customer towhat you can provide? If the buyer wants an
see the sale from the same viewpoint. Forearly delivery date because they have been let
example the customer won't agree to the pricedown in the past, then you can change their belief
you are asking. If you drop your price you haveabout your promise rather than a physical
moved to where they are in the external world.concession in the real world.
This is using external negotiating techniques, andOvercoming the major differences
it's cost you money.When you have moved positions on the points
In the same situation you might stick to youryou and the buyer were close to agreeing, but
sales price but build the value of your product byhad some differences, you can work on
changing the internal viewpoint the customer hasnegotiating the points you are farthest away
on the value of the product. What the benefits offrom agreeing.
the product are worth to them. Nothing hasLook at what you've achieved up to this point
happened in the external world. It's the samewith your negotiation techniques. You've
product at the same price. This is salesconfirmed what you had in common at the start
negotiation techniques used in the internal world,of the negotiations. Using negotiating skills you
and it hasn't cost you a penny. Externalhave moved the buyer's position on some points.
negotiation moves usually cost you money orThis has built a solid relationship that will help you
time. Internal negotiating skills help you avoid givingwith the next stages of the negotiation. You have
discounts and making concessions. So which doalso created a pathway for agreement. A process
you want to use?that has worked towards closing the deal, and will
Sales negotiation starting pointscontinue to work. When you summarise how
The buyer enters the negotiation stage of themuch you and the buyer have come together it
sale with a viewpoint, and a set of beliefs andwill make the remaining points to be discussed
ideas. To negotiate in their world you want to findlook small in comparison. You have achieved so
out where and how this starting point wasmuch that neither you nor the buyer wants to
formed. This will lead to you understanding theirlose what you have.
motivators and drivers. You will be able to relateUse the same process of finding where the
to the reference points they are using to formbuyer's beliefs have come from. How they were
their starting position on their map of reality.formed, what evidence they are based on, and
For example, when a buyer says the price iswhat the buyer really needs from them. Change
expensive, you should first ask how they arrivedthe beliefs that you can, and find alternative ways
at that belief. Are they comparing your price to ato achieve the same objective for the buyer with
competitor's offer? They may not see the valuethe others. When you have used all the internal
they will get from the benefits you havenegotiation techniques you may still be left with
presented. The buyer could be comparing yourdifferences that prevent the sale going ahead.
price against a price they presumed they wouldThis is when you start negotiating in the real
be paying. What evidence have they used toworld. You achieve your objectives by giving to
create that belief? This is one simple viewpointthe buyer, but always getting something in return.
that the buyer has. It has been formed by takingEach discount or concession you make should
in information. That information could be correctresult in a step closer to closing the deal.
or false. They could have distorted it, madeThe sales negotiation process
generalizations, or misunderstood parts of it.You begin by understanding the buyer's starting
During the sales process enter their map of theposition and how it was formed. You question
world. Question their beliefs. Find out what theytheir beliefs and their viewpoints. You understand
think they know about the product, yourtheir motivators, what they want from the
competitors, the cost, the value, the market. Arenegotiation.
they basing their ideas of what the cost should beThe next stage is to confirm the common
on a purchase they made five years ago? Asground. Agree what you agree on. This forms the
early as the introduction and questioning stage offoundation of the negotiation relationship, and
the sales process you can start to change theirgives you both something that is worth building
viewpoint, and stop sales objections coming up inupon.
the negotiation stage.Now work on the negotiation points where your
Now you can start negotiatingdifferences are smallest. This creates an
You understand the starting point and what'sagreement habit. It helps form a process that will
going on in the internal world of your customer.be useful when you face the points of major
Now you can use internal sales negotiationdifference. The more you agree upon, the more
techniques to move the buyer closer to agreeingyour customer will not want to waste what they
a sale with you. This is where many sales peoplehave achieved so far.
make the most common mistake whenAll that remains are the points on which you have
negotiating. They focus on the differencesthe most distance apart. But by now you have
between their position and the buyer's. This justagreed so much that these points will look small
highlights the obstacles and does nothing to build aon the buyer's internal map of the discussions.
relationship on which agreements can be formed.This is where you can start using negotiation
If you want to know how to negotiate to get thetechniques in the real external world. If you had
best possible outcome, start by confirming withmade the common mistake of starting with these
the customer on what you agree on. What domajor challenges you would be facing a huge
the two starting points have in common? This isobstacle.
solid ground to build upon. Then move to the