Negotiation Training - Using and Countering Power

How can you 'create' power and leverage forthink about alternatives when we realise that we
yourself in negotiations?are in a deadlock or in a difficult position.
Is there a way that you can counter the powerThe problem with thinking about alternatives late
held by your counterparts in negotiations?in the negotiation process is that we might find
There is a way that you can consistently createourselves in a position where we have no time
power for yourself whilst at the same timeleft and then we may be forced to accept an
countering the power of your counterparts. If yououtcome we would have preferred to avoid.
consistently apply this technique, you will beThe key to successfully developing alternatives is
rewarded with a significant improvement in theto do so even before you start negotiating.
quality of the deals that you close.2. We do not really invest ourselves in creating
Much has been written about the power that canalternatives. Whilst we may think about
be found in negotiations. Here are some examplesalternatives, often we do not put in place specific
of the things that might provide you with someactions to develop these alternatives.
power: - Status & position (you or your positionIt is very important that once we've identified
may be held in high regard) - Physical appearancepossible alternatives that we actually actively
(you may be very big physically or be deemed toengage in exploring these alternatives.If you want
be physically attrractive) - Organisational positionboth power and leverage in your negotiations,
(your organisation may be considered powerful)then you will have no option but to explore fully all
Whilst the aforementioned are examples of somethe alternatives available to you.
of the things that may confer power on you orAs a matter of fact, you may even have to
your counterpart in negotiations, without ainvent some alternatives if there seems to be no
shadow of a doubt, the single most effectivealternatives available.
way to create power for yourself in negotiation isRemember that successful negotiations and
to create alternatives.creativity go hand in hand.
You will never have as much power in aHere's a word of warning though.
negotiation as you will have if you are notYou should carefully think about whether you
restricted to one option only. If you can placeshould let your counterparty know about the
yourself in a position where all you have to do isalternatives that you at your disposal. If you are
choose between options, then you will alwaysin a very competitive negotiation environment
ensure that you have both power and leverage inthen there is not much harm in letting your
negotiations.counterpart know that you have many
The funny thing is that whilst we do think ofalternatives available.
other options when we negotiate we tend toHowever, if you are in a collaborative
make 2 key mistakes:environment, it may be best to not openly reveal
1. We think about the alternative options too latethe alternatives available to you as this may have
in the negotiation process. Typically, we only starta counterproductive impact on your relationships.